'Till Death Do Us Part?
Marriage is a God-given responsibility. Those who choose to pick it up without knowledge of its weight will tend to get hurt. Those who choose to lift it knowing, but without consideration will tend to hurt others. Individual right overrules public good when it comes to the family in this country, and it should not be so. The national divorce rate has significantly increased over the past several years. Currently that rate holds steady: 50% of all marriages end in divorce. Modern rights and entertainment that society thrives upon must be blamed. Unnecessary damage has been done because of the need to provide for ourselves.
Social norms as well as a fear of appearing uneducated and lethargic have driven the women in this country into the open arms of businesses everywhere. In these two-income-households the wives are so autonomous that their role is forgotten and the marriage suffers the consequences.
Similarly with the husbands, wives are more often with their male coworkers than their partners, building stronger relationships at work than at home. Consequently the propensity of adultery increases. Husbands, through this movement of women to the workplace, are now daily surrounded by an overabundance of women making the availability of sex outside the marriage much more convenient.
Media greatly influences the decisions that are made by the public. We are a vastly conformist society, idolizing many celebrities. The marriages of those in the spotlight don't last long. Those of the famous that have lasting marriages aren't publicized as such. The ease of celebrities going from marriage to marriage misleads the public into thinking that marriage is a game. Several popular television shows contribute to the desensitizing of America's marriages to divorce. Television court series often show a broken family completely severing the ties of...
Divorce.
I agree with many of your points, however I for one certainly wouldnt advocate a return to times when a spouse would remain in an abusive marriage because divorce and its consequences were deemed to be worse.
Most people enter into a marriage believing it is for life, and if sadly it does not last, many are left with severe depression. The divorce itself may be easier to obtain, but the ramifications may go on for a long time, particularly when children are involved.
The divorce rate is so high not just because it has become another 'disposable' .
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