The role of language in immigrant family

Essay by Chinese_MJHigh School, 12th grade August 2004

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Language plays a very important role in many immigrant families.

Immigrant

children learn English very fast while parents still use the language

they

usually speak. Children pick up new things very fast. Children at

younger

ages are easier to adapt using English as their primary language and

the

American custom because "School is the launching pad that sends them

into a

different world day after day, distancing them from their roots" (Arax

3).

This causes a big generation and culture gaps as people, like Xuong Lam

who

is the head of a close-knit family of Chinese refugees from Vietnam and

settled in the United Stated six years ago, at older ages cannot change

their cultural values; Lam says, "When you are old like me or my wife

and

mother, America cannot change you. How many years do we have left to

learn

about America? But the younger ones, they will change" (Arax 6).

These

different speeds of assimilation sometimes creates generation gap can

be

easily solved if families communicate well. However, communication

itself

has already been a problem. Language is usually the barrier of allowing

a

thorough communication in immigrant families.

Lack of communication between family members is a serious problem. In

some

immigrant families, some older parents do not intend to learn much

English:

for example, Xuong Lam, and immigrant father who arrived here at aged

50,

"has learned just enough English to deal with his children's teachers

and

school administrators" (Arax 2). Typically, those immigrants who come

to

the United States at an older age do not view learning English as a

high

priority or more important than other things. Janice Choe, who acted as

a

young interpreter for her parents when she came to the Untied States at

the

age of 12, says that...