Self-Help Book Review, "Outing Yourself" by Michelangelo Signorile: Psychology of Adjustment

Essay by TralynCollege, UndergraduateA+, January 2006

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I really enjoyed this book a lot. It talked about so many different things and I was learned even more about whom I am inside.

To sum up the book "Outing Yourself" the authorMichelangelo Signorile broke things down into different steps and how to handle the different ways of letting people know you are.

He has written a total of fourteen steps. The first three steps are about outing you to yourself. How can we expect others to accept us if we can't accept you? I feel this is very true because if you have self-loathing for which you are and think badly about whom you truly are inside you can't expect others to love and accept you. One-step to start acceptance. As you read and find out the facts you will be able to see you are a good person and that being gay is just whom you are inside.

The book talks about meeting other people. It also discusses developing a family of friends. This will help you to learn other people and trying to understand situations they have been through. Also having such close friends they will be there to support you when you are ready to come out. They can give you some pointers and also if things don't like you hope they are there to help you through it. They will also be there to help still love you even though others may not. As the book moves on to help, the next steps, are 6 and 7.

The author has you tell your best friend first and to practice first by taking time and rehearsing what you want to tell him or her. He suggests that you try and imagine reactions they may have so you will be better able to...